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Chceme v\u0161echno, hned a […]","datePublished":"2019-10-13","dateModified":"2023-05-31","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.clzt.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.clzt.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/59b0e4716b6bc16861d789b0eb3efe04cb591482277f92a016ec4356fe735210?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/59b0e4716b6bc16861d789b0eb3efe04cb591482277f92a016ec4356fe735210?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"clzt.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.clzt.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a356187_w3915_t1570895107.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.clzt.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a356187_w3915_t1570895107.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.clzt.cz\/proc-dnesni-vztahy-nic-nevydrzi\/","about":["L\u00e1ska"],"wordCount":419,"articleBody":"Jist\u011b takov\u00fd p\u00e1r zn\u00e1te i vy. Zamilovali se, zasnoubili se, vzali se, porodili d\u011bti, rozvedli se – a tohle v\u0161echno stihli v horizontu dvou let. Jist\u011b jste nad t\u00edm tak\u00e9 u\u017e n\u011bkdy p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161leli. Spousta vztah\u016f je nevyrovnan\u00e1 a kon\u010d\u00ed rozvodem ji\u017e brzy po svatb\u011b. Pro\u010d se tomu v\u0161ak d\u011bje?\u017dijeme v usp\u011bchan\u00e9 dob\u011b. Chceme v\u0161echno, hned a nejl\u00e9pe zadarmo. Mnoho z n\u00e1s bylo ji\u017e od mali\u010dka ubezpe\u010dov\u00e1no, \u017ee jsou kr\u00e1sn\u00ed, chyt\u0159\u00ed, zkr\u00e1tka dokonal\u00ed. Tohle v\u0161e m\u011blo jen jedin\u00fd v\u00fdsledek. Mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9 nejsou schopni (a ani ochotni) d\u011blat kompromisy. Jestli\u017ee se n\u011bco d\u011bje mimo vysn\u011bn\u00fd ide\u00e1l, \u010dasto neum\u00ed probl\u00e9m vy\u0159e\u0161it. Obrovskou vinu na tom maj\u00ed i soci\u00e1ln\u00ed s\u00edt\u011b.P\u0159i neust\u00e1l\u00e9m chatov\u00e1n\u00ed se vytratila schopnost \u0159e\u0161it probl\u00e9my tv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed v tv\u00e1\u0159. Mnohdy mimo online sv\u011bt nejsou mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9 schopni \u0159\u00edct sv\u00e9 pocity ani st\u00ed\u017enosti. D\u00edky tomu se probl\u00e9my potla\u010duj\u00ed (\u010d\u00edm\u017e se tak\u00e9 kup\u00ed).Se soci\u00e1ln\u00edmi s\u00edt\u011bmi souvis\u00ed i dal\u0161\u00ed probl\u00e9m. \u017dijeme v dokonal\u00e9m sv\u011bt\u011b a sami se sna\u017e\u00edme b\u00fdt dokonal\u00ed. Chceme b\u00fdt huben\u00ed, kr\u00e1sn\u00ed a bohat\u00ed, proto abychom dos\u00e1hli vytou\u017een\u00e9ho v\u00fdsledku, jsme ochotni i lh\u00e1t nebo se dokonce p\u0159etva\u0159ovat.T\u00edmto se dost\u00e1v\u00e1me k j\u00e1dru v\u011bci. Za p\u0159edpokladu, \u017ee se za\u010dneme p\u0159etva\u0159ovat i p\u0159ed partnerem, nast\u00e1v\u00e1 probl\u00e9m. Chv\u00edli tento „dokonal\u00fd“ vztah fungovat m\u016f\u017ee, nicm\u00e9n\u011b je p\u0159edem odsouzen k z\u00e1niku. Je logick\u00e9, \u017ee se nikdo nedok\u00e1\u017ee p\u0159etva\u0159ovat v\u011b\u010dn\u011b. Jakmile prvotn\u00ed zamilovanost vyprch\u00e1, nastane krut\u00e1 realita. N\u00e1sledn\u011b partne\u0159i za\u010dnou m\u00edt pocit, \u017ee se odcizili a \u017ee se jejich prot\u011bj\u0161ek zm\u011bnil. N\u00e1sledn\u011b je konec vztahu za rohem.Chcete-li, aby pr\u00e1v\u011b ten v\u00e1\u0161 vztah trval a\u017e na v\u011bky, je up\u0159\u00edmnost a \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed probl\u00e9m\u016f zcela st\u011b\u017eejn\u00ed. Dokonalost ho\u010fte za hlavu a hned od za\u010d\u00e1tku vztahu si na nic nehrajte. Krom\u011b toho, \u017ee si budete l\u00e9pe rozum\u011bt, z\u00edsk\u00e1te i b\u00e1je\u010dn\u00fd pocit z toho, \u017ee v\u00e1s n\u011bkdo m\u00e1 r\u00e1d skute\u010dn\u011b takov\u00e9ho jak\u00fd jste a nemus\u00edte nic p\u0159edst\u00edrat.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Pro\u010d dne\u0161n\u00ed vztahy nic nevydr\u017e\u00ed?","item":"https:\/\/www.clzt.cz\/proc-dnesni-vztahy-nic-nevydrzi\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]